@SneakyGrow, well tall and skinny or short and fat, it's really a personal preference. I'm trying to get mine shorter. My colas were so heavy they broke the stems. Due to auto short life cycle, most prefer to go with a smaller plant, train out some branches and get multiple short, fat colas. I would be hesitant to change the lighting now as you will have a top-heavy plant on your hands. However if you feel safe to experiment, she is at absolute perfect time to fim or top with 4 nodes showing. If done correctly she will give you more tops. Research fimming and topping cannabis on YouTube. You would have to do it soon. Good luck!
Does your fish poop contain calcium or magnesium? I would suggest you give one dose of that to your plant in your next feeding, even if you have to find some crazy organic cal-mag supplements.
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