Organomananswered grow question 17 minutes ago Just let it fullly mature.........do not harvest early..........the "damage" is already done, may as well get proper, decent mature buds rather than weaker immature buds.
Seeds are a pain, but pick them out, it will be fine.
Remember though, seeds from hermie flowers will carry dominant genes for being hermies too, so any mature seeds you find will not be any good for future plantings unfortunately.
They willl not be feminized, they will be regular seeds, with a 50/50 chance of being male or female with a better than 90% odds of being hermies as well.