Be patient.
18/6 is ideal.
Fertilizing a plant this age in quality soil is a definite no-no.
With a name like "monster bud mix", I would presume it is designed for the flowering stage and certainly not for freshly sprouted seedlings.
Never compare your grow to other peoples' grows, there are too many variables, especially when it comes to the truth.
Since you are on this site, start a diary, it will help greatly with answering any future questions you may have.
There is no such thing as "too much information" when it comes to grow questions!