Is this male or female ?

Too early to tell, nothing happening yet...........did you grow "regular" seeds? If you grew "fem" seeds, there is a 99%+ chance they will be female. Bonus points for good, clear, close up pictures!

Too early to tell for a fact, but I can tell you for certain that there are no male parts. It appears to be a female plant going into flower. Be on the lookout for white hairs and that will let you know for sure.