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If you don't want to top you could squeeze the stem slightly where u want it to bend. Don't break the skin just damage the inside so she leans over. To do this be very carful it can go wrong easy...
Depends what your plan is really. The stem looks solid so don't push to much. I would top it and probably move the net up so you can spread her out like a trapees act on a porn swing.