Male or female

Looks like a female to me, maybe a little less feed until she perks up, you will notice the difference once you start to reduce.

Could be a they/them, but most normal people would identify this plant as female, no doubts about it. And yes, plant is quite over fed.

Ja Weibchen und mOuse hat Recht mit dem zu vielen dünger. Weniger ist oftmals mehr

female. and over fed