Hey 👋
In my opinion, the perfect time for the harvest depends on you. Even if your lady seems to need a little more time, the timing of the harvest really comes down to your personal preferences.
If you let her ripen longer, you'll harvest more, but you'll get couch-lock effects. If you harvest at the THC peak (as milky as possible, as much amber as necessary), you'll get more of a head high.
If you want a number, I would estimate 2-3 weeks. In the end, it really depends on what effects you're looking for. A lot on the scale won't help you if it's not what you want in the end 🤷🏼
Hope this helps! Good luck in the final stretch 👊🍀🖖