1st Grow Random bag seed (male) :'(

during the break of photos i had bought a bar light and metal wire to lst better causing the plant to split in the middle from too much stress, however doesnt really seem to matter. this is when i started learning from all my mistakes and started to flush the plant so the leaves started to lose the pale colour. Also many colas were being created from low stress training, and since i was waiting to get a better light for flowering i didnt really care how long i vegged for. also this is when i started to see what looked like a calyx. I was also forced to move the plant to a bigger closet due to its size. these were the only photos taken in december due to me getting more worried it was a male, i then moved all my plants into my tent in the basement for more room once my light came in.