So I'm dumb. I decided that since my oldest and biggest plant ended up male, that I'd veg for a while longer. I didn't really do the research I just acted on impulse. It seems to be doing fine.
@DabCrab, ikr! Lucky indeed! Especially given that I nearly fried her to death when she was small. I'm so so glad that she made it. I was so stoked when I first noticed the purple!