Are you watering it enough? Lack of water would explain the droopy leaves.
You still have 4-6 weeks of flowering to go, no matter what the trichomes look like right now, harvest when there are 98-99% brown pistils.
Some strains will have nearly 80% amber trichomes from about the fourth week of flowering onwards, and some strains never develop amber trichomes at all. It all comes down to genetics.