Definitely female. Bit overexposed to see everything, but those are definitely stigmata (female anatomy)
About the off-topic response you got - wow, that's a lot of bad info. No spots, so less likely mg-related. I don't see clawing in this picture, either, do you? I could be wrong. Also, droopy plants after lights out is normal plant behaviour. Turgidity reduces in absence of light. There's no reason to hold its leaves upright when their is no light, so the plant droops. If it droops the last 2-3 hours of your light-cycle, that would potentially correlate with too much light.
simply add up umol/s of your 2 lights. divide by meters-squared. this is a rough ppfd. reference that value along with hours of operation to find DLI (google DLI table). If its 40 or greater, that's potentially the cause of the very mild chlorosis you see in some of the top leaves.
you want 35-40 dli, but even that requires some observation and adjustment. It's just a good starting point then you verify with proper resulting growth patterns. The relevant variables make the "max" DLI you can give to be potentially different in every garden. Everyone has to go through that trial and error due to local variables. more is not better for just about anything we do. rather a goldielocks zone is what you want to seek for lights, temp, heat, fertilizer etc... all should jive with each other.
if you are using 2 600w lights, that is a real concern you should look into. do the math or recognize the odd growth patterns that result fro too much light -- new nodes will be absurdly close together and very little to no internode (aka the stem between 2 nodes) length develops.
foliar sprays are good for extreme circumstances. if feedingn aplant properly there is never a reason to do it. it's one of those things that make some people feel like they are giving 110% but totally unnecessary when properly fertizing the plant and any slow progressing issue can be fixed with a tweak to fertilization. Don't needlessly clog up the stomata. That will only reduce co2 intake and CO2 is the limiting factor for growth.
1 for 3 on the offtopic concerns.. LOL i guess if you throw everything at the wall, something will stick.