"snap" it -- really you want to slightly damage a point on the stem and bend it over... support it for the first 24-48hours then after that you probably need to tie it down to prevent it from self-correcting. the tip will grow vertically from that point, so tie it down near the end of the branch. Consider this when you choose where to break it down.
it'll heal within 24-48 hours. The knuckle that forms will be even stronger than before. If you see wilted leaves for more than 24h, be a bit gentler next time. You can do it with zero wilt, too. It's something you need to get the feel for.