Growmie, before you start throwing more stuff at her, check your EC/PPM and reservoir temp
Dark + clawing leaves definitely could point toward too much N, but together with the purple stems, stalled growth and dying lowers, I'd be looking at root-zone / nutrient uptake stress first.
And “same feed, other plants are happy” unfortunately doesn't completely rule it out, this girl might just not be taking it up properly.
Have a proper look at those roots too. No funky smell is a good sign, but I'd still want to see healthy, firm roots.
I also wouldn't keep flushing her with plain water. I'd get her back onto a mild balanced feed, plenty of bubbles, stable pH, then watch what the EC does over the next day or two.
Drop your EC/PPM + water temp, those two numbers would help a LOT here.