You shouldn't run into too many problems unless up near 500ppm and higher hard water. I have 300ppm water after the city's water treatment... well water around here is atrociously hard.
You may need a little more or less Ca than the next person, but that's just a matter of tracking how much you provide and trial and error until you get it dialed in. When i switched from tap to softened (lol, i know), i didn't have to change anything, and like i said, my water id 300ppm hard water with high Ca levels.
You might be better off running a soilless grow. The religious 10% runoff or more essentially makes buildup impossible... still possible to overfeed, but it will never be due to things building up in the medium.
Any acid will work well to balance it. Don't need the 20 dollar bottle of branded ph-down. White distilled vineagar (5%) is an excellent option most people can find cheaply at a local market. Can get 3gallons for 3-5 dollars around here. Probably 1-3mL per gallon to get from ~8 to ~6... again, just measure, test, measure test until you find the proper dosing.
pH after it's been added to pot can change because the plant doesn't not take in all molecules with water... so selecting intake leades to slowly shifting pH... again, another super power of soiless, the excess runoff built into the process will help reset that every time you irrigate.
don't add epsom unless you know it can handle more Mg and S ... otherwise you'll just cause an imbalance.
pistils can turn color even before day 40 of flower, so that's not too much of a concern and will vary.
While it might be a Ca issue, the picutres are a bit blurry... seems like some have chlorosis at the top, too... so you may also just be giving a bit too much light -- if it's minor it can take weeks to see symptoms. They get that crispy spotty look from that too.