@gottagrowsometime, Thanks, yes, It really looks like you are correct, I'm letting my soil dry for absurd amounts of time, like 2 weeks with no water, and then once I water again the leaves start to die. I think the plant is not totally recovered from the over water, and every time I water again it starts to lose some leaves and stalls. I will point a fain directly to the pots (its fabric pots so the air flows throught it) and leave it be with no water, lets see what happens...
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