First time Outdoors critical + cookie

Unfortunately this girl has been a complete nightmare it's not because of the plants not because of the weather not because of the nutrients not because of the soil but it's because the person who is looking after the girls in my absence . I live approximately 2 hours from the property so somebody has to look after them when I'm not there. Unfortunately the person who is looking after them in my absence does not have a minimum of logic when it comes to grow plants he is 200% city dividual with zero gardening skills or common sense I asked him to buy some neem oil and also some pesticide soap to mix them in water and spray the plans as a preventive management against pests but instead of doing what I said he went and purchased some baking soda and some form of liquid soap and he combined them at one tablespoon per gallon and he spray the plants with this poison mix when I asked him where he got this information from he mentioned in the internet( YouTube). The problem is I did not find out about this until the second day by then the plants had an incredible beating and I thought they were not going to come back I washed them and flush them with tons of water out of a hose on hopes that they were bouncing back at some point but I was getting ready Jiffy pucks to start a new grow very sad and disappointed by it . but they seem to be bouncing back and even though they have lost precious week with mistreatment poisoning butchering and every single mistake in the book and some that are not even there they are still thriving what incredible plants. I did not post much pictures because is very sad to see them in this state but to all the new Growers out there every time you think to do more to you plant that equals sacrificing growth and in other matters more is less when it comes to cannabis plants just let them grow be patient don't do too much to it unless is sick or has some nutrient deficiency I can't tell you how disappointed and upset I am because it feels like doesn't matter how much I work to put them ahead somebody else's destroying my hard work . thank you for reading I will continue to update have a happy grow