Male, Female, It or they??

Hi Mate, I've checked this pic and the entire diary: Luckily no bananas are visible and I can see lots of pistils, no herm signs. I think that you can't compare the flowering signs of different strains, every plants develop themselves in a different way and in a different time even within the same strain. IMO your plant is in a sort of prolonged preflowering stage and your plant shows all the signs of this. This thing is happened last year to my Pineapple Kusk where preflowering stage is lasted for an entire month. Stay relaxed and just check for bananas. I hope I'm right. Good luck.