Agree, first 2 pictures look perfectly ready, the third picture another 7-10 days, or when they look like the buds in pics one and two.
Don't worry, they won't snap, the plant is capable of looking after itself.
It is mainly outdoors and high winds that cause breakages or overly rough handling indoors.
Even if they do snap, as long as they don't detach, they will be ok.
Cheers, Organoman.