m0useanswered grow question 2 years ago Mostly cloudy, some clear, I don't see any amber yet.
Would be fine if you harvested now, I don't like it with much amber.
You can't dictate who answers the questions, as its a public form on a site with many users.
However you alone have the choice of who gets selected as the selected answer and the ability to just not pick one.
The GOTM contest can be a shit show and it seems you feel scared from it. Sorry for what trauma this has caused you, hopefully someone else will chime in with alternate advice for you.
Good Luck!