Thats essentially why most fertilizers never come with cal and mag, it leaves the choice up to the grower, depending on how hard your water is.
A completely coco system (coco fiber substrate, along with coco-specific nutrients), moderately hard to hard water is generally best. But In soil you will need to play the game.
Here is the thing.
The recommended ratio of calcium (Ca), magnesium (Mg), and potassium (K) in soil for optimal plant growth is generally around 65:10:5 (Ca:Mg:K), meaning that calcium should make up about 65% of the exchangeable bases, magnesium 10%, and potassium 5%. This ratio can also be expressed as 13:2:1.
Tap water will have anywhere 3:1 upto 8:1 calcium and magnesium. With little to no K.
Calcium is immobile inside plant, means it needs to be made available constantly over time for new growth. Especially early flower formation. Magnesium is mobile.
If you adjust the pH before adding nutrients, the nutrients themselves can alter the pH, requiring further adjustment, it's all a big pain in the arse tbh.
Your tap water should be enough for prolonged periods to provide the calcium she needs but eventually she will show signs of deficiency luckily calcium and magnesium shortages are visually easy to recognize and so long as you keep tabs on your ph in the soil when your ph is getting close to 6.2 then you know cation calcium that likes to make up 65% in soil is starting to run low.
Next time you get money buy yourself a soil ec metre. This way you can get instant idea of how much salts are In your medium and how close you are to being full. Using ph you can ballpark cation ratio. Right now I think your medium is jammed with ca and mg and you will need to possibly leech to reset until you get within good ec range then apply ph balanced water with desired ratio of ferts for your stage of growth minus any calmag supplements. Right now your run off is coming out higher than what's going in.
With those 2 metrics and a little understanding, all problems become simplified. With that I wish you the very best of luck with your grow. If there is anything else the big happy family at gd can help you with let us know and I might write you a book 📖 😉. Gluck mucker.