The nematodes should actually look alive, long, and mobile.
If they appeared "squashed" during application, it's quite possible that they were no longer viable — this happens when they were stored too warm, left outside for too long, or used too late.
Fresh nematodes are active and move clearly. If they look passive and limp, they hardly have any effect.
🐜 Predatory mites
Predatory mites (e.g., Hypoaspis / Stratiolaelaps) work well against fungus gnat larvae and small soil pests — but not directly against mealybugs high on the leaves.
Their effect is usually seen in the soil, not on the leaves.
Green lacewing larvae
Green lacewing larvae are great against soft aphids, thrips, spider mite nymphs, etc.
They are active predators, but they need to find enough food first; otherwise, they "disappear" quickly or die.
🐛 Mealybugs
Mealybugs sit on top of the leaves or in knots and are not really a target for nematodes or predatory mites.
Against mealybugs, ladybug larvae, green lacewing larvae, neem-based sprays, or rapeseed oil sprays are more effective.
Also, repeated picking off with cotton swabs + alcohol often helps.