I don't know who told you that mate but chill out, ask the questions before employing the tactics, you just removed all the pussy hair from your girl, don't do it again lmao
But you got it man, we learn from mistakes and you learned about 3 lessons from this one, 1° always fact check, 2° ask first, act later, 3° do not remove female calyxes and what are female calyxes.
So i would say it was a good day for you.
Congrats on the female tho, lets hope she won't turn into a feminist after what you did to her, that's the last thing we need in this comunity, feminist weed.
Best of luck on your grow growmie, lets hope she doesn't get stressed.