sorry but i have to disagree with my growmies here. You're absolutely right it really is spidermites and this you can see from the bite marks on the leafs. Many people have some kinds of remedies, but the truth is neem oil doesnt work and chemical insecticides will not work. One of the things that i find works great is Bacilus Thuriengiensis. this will take time to take full effect but the good news is it will control the outbreak very well. If you dont like this method (BT) then try neem or chemical insecticides, but always check the label to make sure it's safe for "food" before you use it on the plant. Hope this helps ! 🚀