No, she's not demanding more N... she's telling you she has too much of it.... that and a pH that is much too high has caused a lockout of calcium and/or magnesium so no matter HOW much calmag you give her, she's not going to be able to get at it. Microbes regulate pH??? Never heard of that - and if that was the case, there'd be article after article on it and no one would be using PH-UP or PH-Down.. seriously.
You need to get back to neutral on this grow - give it a good flush (run water pH'd to 6.2 at the rate of 3x the pot volume so if you're growing in a 3 gallon pot, you'd run 9 gallons of water through it). After it's dried out, you can resume your nutes but at 1/2 strength for the first feed... you can increase thereafter but only 1/2 strength first feed. And always pH your water, your nutes - between 6.0 and 6.5 is ideal. If you're dead set again PH-Up or -Down, look for alternatives like vinegar or lemon juice to lower the pH and baking soda to raise it... but growing weed needs a proper pH first and foremost....
Good luck...