Always pH adjust after you add fertilizer. There is no point to doing it before.
Is your probe broken? Re-callibrate it. Sounds like equipment issues.
RO should be ~7, but maybe when there are so few dissolved molecules, it doesn't read accurately. This should not be a problem after adding fertilizer, if that is the case.
Also, save yourself some money. Just use some 5% white distilled vinegar (acetic acid).