Yeah, I think you might be right... but the only thing "wrong" with foxtailing are the looks - they still are loaded with cannabinoids and terpenes - they're just not going to produce "perfect" round, dense buds. There are a number of causes of this - and a number of things you can to help minimize the problem... but I'm wondering if you aren't close enough to harvest to really want to try any of these things... If you DO want to, a good article to read is this one from RQS... https://www.royalqueenseeds.com/blog-how-to-spot-and-handle-cannabis-foxtails-n638
Good luck... I love your determination to stick with her through all kinds of trials and tribulations!