Is this a hermie!?!?!

No, not a hermie. Keep an eye out for what looks like little hanging balls. There is a good article on growweedeasy.com about this subject.

Negative my friend, That's just some super swollen sparkly calyx. When you see the pistils popping out of it that's the first sign you're in the clear, the second is that there aren't little clusters of them there together. A hermie flower would eventually open up like a lily flower and look much more differently. You're all good, treat that lady right. Happy flowering. ✌️

Hard to tell. Next time turn off your lights and use the flash option to get clear photos. That said, from.what I see, they all look like female bits. Any that have the classic two white pistils sticking out are perfect. There was one that I really couldn't tell with. If it doesnt show pistils, it may be a hermie. If it's only one random set, sometimes you can get away with taking an exacto knife to it. It's still a coin flip on whether or not it will develop more pollen sacks, but if you don't wanna toss the whole plant, it's an option. Just don't cut into the sac at all, cut into the stem holding the sac. If you dont go more than half way into the stem, it will recover no problem.

Just looks like a few swollen caylex. not seeing the male flower. 👊