No need to be overly worried about pH, as long as it is not below 5.5 or above 7.5, everything should be fine. Those small cups are totally inadequate for seedling growth, really, something like 4 inches across and 5 inches deep is far, far better. It seems most people want really big plants then start their seedlings in thimbles! I just don't understand it.
Apart from the small cups, your seedling looks normal and healthy, and that is all that matters.
Comparing your plant to other peoples plants is not overly helpful, there will always be bigger plants, as well as smaller plants. Growth depends on so many factors - lights, temps, feeding, grow techniques, seed genetics etc, that makes comparing your seedling to other ones is not really valid.
Hope this helps,.........
Organoman.