now few days later, they should be more visible, but that with the arrow is for sure balls, other two spots looks like future naners ....
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One sounds like a Calyx, the other one should be on the opposit way. Seems you have bound your plant for the picture and on top, almost symmetricaly you have another one on top of the Calyx. Sounds not hermaphrodite.
i saw you have only small girl, give them few days to develop and pinch off, do it if any other balls in gang are forming. this could help to push longer and have harvest , maybe even without few seeds ...