hey there Gato, this is the WORST problem in the world, i'm so sorry to see that in your home man. I didnt used to hate bugs until i started growing, then i hated them, now i'm 50/50 ... there is not a lot of good solutions for spider mites, actually there are only two solutions that do work. The main idea is that nature is a violent place, so listen : try adding ladybugs in your room, it's a funny thing but basically you can order ladybugs online and ladybuds love to eat the spidermites and eat the spider mite eggs, the can eat 30000 spider mites a day, so usually after a week or ten days you can see they will disappear themselves once they run out of food, and the best part is they are not so small so it's easy to find them a remove them when they die. The other solution which also works is to add bacillus thuriengiensis (just follow the instructions on the pack), this is a bacteria that basically parasites the eggs and the larvae and also parasites the spider mites when they are grown but doesnt harm the plants. it takes a bit longer to work than the ladybugs but in two weeks or so it should be fixed. Honestly synthetic bug stuff doesnt work and most other remedies dont either.... Hope this helps 🚀