Take out the mold buds and use for alcohol extraction as alcohol kills the mold and holds the thc.
The others buds either leave or harvest, leaving it may cause her to pollinate others around, this may be good or not depending on this next paragraph.
If she was a hermie from the beggining then harvest and avoid pollination of the other ones. If she was a female and polinated herself, congratulations you have gotten yourself a wholr batch of feminized seeds, in this situation i would even let her pollinate other strains around just for the sake of gambling on discovering a new "Gorilla Glue 4" i mention this one because shr was discovered this way, you can read more about it on fastbuds blog, article about gorilla glue, and after shr polinated another strain's female i would just save those seeds for next grow, and ser what fortune has landed on you, hopefully the next gen of high thc, hopefully one with up to 40% thc or at least a really powerfull cannabinoid profile.
In relation to the bud, you can do a dry sift wich will get you just the good part of bud without ruining the seeds or the smoking experience, all you need is a mesh to do it.
Hope it helped out, good luck growmie and wish you a good discovery shall you choose to go down that path.