you don't want tall plants, for sure. remember the double in size or more after flipping to 12-12 schedule.
You'll want a certain amount of space above the lights +18-24" distance from canopy. You can work out your max height (sorry for imperial scale, but same path) Avoid that height at all costs...
with good extraction, it should be fine. a taller tent helps with heat too -- larger volume for fan to keep up with before it impacts crop below. (like diving down in water you hit that line where it gets cold, but different factors dictating where it is, of course).
400w in a 1.6mtall... 1Mx1M area? you'll want the 400w for sure. maybe even run the 250 during bloom.
Circulation fans are good inside your tent. I like to see a gentle rustling in my plants.. tells me air is flowing through it well.