Soooo after worrying about the browning stem I figured I would look at a bud from the bottom of the plant to see how long of i was to keep it going and I found this (image) that looks ripe to me this is the lowest bud at 60x
You need to see at least 20% amber to pull. You still have clear trichs, which makes the medicine kinda speedy. If you want relaxed, wait for amber to appear.