Hey there! For question 1, strange leaves could be a sign of various things like nutrient deficiency, pests, or even just the plant doing its plant thing. Maybe check the soil, and keep an eye out for any unwanted visitors.
As for question 2, trimming large leaves might help redirect energy to the growing buds, but don't go all Edward Scissorhands on it. Plants need their leaves for photosynthesis and all that jazz. Give it some recovery time and then consider some gentle pruning if needed.
Happy growing!