Hey buddy. I used a very very porent mix of compost 60% and 40% of a plant cacti mix that says you can mix 20l with the bag i put the bag in 2 9l pots with 60% high grade compost. This was when I was completely new, and only after planting I read with autos 25% compost and the rest ineart is more than enough for the first few was of growth with no nutes. So I panicked. I thought I was going to have the very problems you are. Thankfully I had 3 great nutes. My point is if you adding a root stim/fungi to control nute uptake and so on, I really doubt you'd be having those problems. If you look through diaries that ppl have used I bet they either did a mix or are adding some time of micro enzyme/fungi or soil organism to control nute uptake in such a potent mix. 1 month for fems is really short growing time, but yeah you can do the flip now should be a problem if you want a short thick canopy I get that. Have u added a fungi or micro enzyme of some sort?