No way to tell the difference between male and female seeds, but most seeds these days are "feminised", meaning the is a greater than 99% chance of the plant from those seeds being female.
Regular seeds have a 50/50 chance of being either male or female, but unless you are interested in breeding, there is little point buying regular seeds, although there are some purists out there that will not buy anything except pure, genetically unmodified seeds.
Male plants are basically unsmokeable as their trichome production is extremely low and it is the female flowers that ooze the trichomes that get people high.