too far away, too blurry..
does it have 2 hairs portruding from it? that's female.
if it starts to project out from stem on a twig, it's male.
you can also see segmentation on the males where it will later split open whereas female bits (calyxes) are solid and no perforation or segmentation of the pod-like shape.
twig vs hair should be first thing you can see that will easily distinguish one from the other. there's plenty of time at that point. nothing will get pollinated over night. it takes a couple weeks to grow and mature before it dumps pollen.