Highly recommend not pruning at all this late in flower. The stress and the risk are far to high, IMO. She may not recover well if you're to do this. The course of action, as you suggested, is to do very light defo if you have too. 2-3 leaves here and there over a day or two, here and there may cause a little bit of stress but shouldn't really hurt her. If you defo, try and plan to do so around the time of your feeding. This will help the little one recover faster. I've been spreading around this technique that I learned and that I use very often and it doesn't involve cutting or taking anything. Instead of cutting off a fan leaf I'll first attempt to massage and direct it out of the way. Between you forefinger and your thumb, gently massage the fan leave stem until it is malleable. Once malleable you can direct the fan into the direction you please, exposing your inner canopy to light and air👍. These massaged leaves will eventually migrate back to it's original position within 24-48 hours but just needs to be repeated. The perks of this method are this: No stress, you don't lose or have to cut a valuable fan leaf and you achieve the same results!!!! Just my two cents 😊
Hope this helped and good luck in the near future with the girls. Looking good and on your way to end-game. Cheers and happy trails. Drop me a PM if you think there's anything else I may be able to help you with.✊