Hey man.
There is a true way you can know how much your plant takes in..its not ideal. But it works for me.
So, when plants (phenos) overdo it with their DLI (par intake) they will droop really bad about 30m after lights out. Possibly before. I've never waited and watched lol. But, after checking if your see your plant droop. That's light stress. It means, it was standing up taking light, when really it couldn't take no more. Light boxers after a fight. They need to sit down. Well some do. As said below. As phenos / strains / plants take in DLI amounts differently. Also, environmental will play a big factor. Now I've not heard of a cannabis plant needing that DLI you're using. But, depending on the size of the plant, foliage and so on.
Also, when taking a true DLI you need to take a few readings at dif levels (at the tops of each sets of nodes) then average them up to get your plants DLI as the ppfd hitting will be higher at the top then middle and bottom. So, this comes into play also. Your DLI might be 65 at the top but, when you do it at dif levels plant wide and finding out how deep your ppf reaches Also comes into play. So, in reality you might just be hitting that right no DLI wise. As if it was plant wide, or a scrog where all top nodes were even. Then yes, that's a true DLI cause at the points 1st intake are all even, r more so that a reg grown plant.
So, your DLI would actually be a lot lower than 65 if you're just getting the ppfd from the top. I'm nearly sure I read about this on growweedeasy. Although I can't remember
Good luck