TFTC: The Yogi Bogie Do-Si-Do Chat Show

Hello friends, welcome back to the channel and to this weeks episode of “TFTC: The Yogi Bogie Do-Si-Do Chat Show” brought to you in partnership with Zamnesia, the place which helps take care of your needs on the journey of mortality. We thank you for joining us in the studio today and hope you are ready to listen to more… stuff. So let us go down to the studio now and join Yogi Bogie and see what topic he will be talking shit about now. ============================================================================ Welcome back friends, we are so glad that you could join us in our little closet today. This week has been an interesting one, my mind has been brought back to a topic which is another difficult balance, that is what it means to be a nice person, seems like a pretty simple thing, much like watering a plant, but it requires a bit of thought when you consider the pit falls down each side of the balancing beam. There was a time in my life where my interactions with others were rather toxic, my personality was brash and abrasive. Then one day when I was around 13 I decided to change this as people did not like me, so instead the action plan was being nice to people, it worked as people spent more time in my presence. Seems like a happy ending to a short and shitty story, however there are two sides to any balancing beam: on the one we have the aforementioned no one likes you if you are a complete asshole, unless you have an overwhelming quality to redeem this (being hot, rich etc). The otherside of the beam is that you are too nice, and this is the one thing that many people who claim to be nice, always have an issue with. You will often hear a guy moan about being super nice and not getting picked by the girl, instead she goes for some complete ass hat. There are a few things we are going to talk about today, these are just my thoughts and in no way should be seen as facts, however if you wish to talk about it just comment, since most of you are unlikely to read this far, we will just get into it for the one or two who are hardcore. If you are going to be a nice person, you should not do it for any return. It is a decision you make for yourself in a reflective exercise, if you want to be a nice person then you are doing it because you want to be that person. Despite this being your choice and has nothing to do with other people, there is a lesson we must learn about boundaries. When meeting new people or associating with people you have known for any length of time, it is important to realise that some will want to take advantage (up to this point in my writing I was pretty high, now I am sober and don't think I will go back). Taking advantage is not the actions of someone who needs your help, they are people who will use your kindness for gain, because they know you are nice they will continue to use you to do menial tasks that they just do not want to do from laziness more than anything else (if someone constantly asks you to get things from the shop because they know you will, or ask for your help doing their garden and then they piss off and leave you to it). Due to people often taking advantage it is important to work out boundaries or as I like to put it “Set out your market stall”, you make sure people know who you are and what you are looking for, do not be frustrated if people do not believe your intentions, over time your actions will speak and people will come to learn the truth, but by being open and honest with people you add great value to relationships. There is not enough time to go into full detail, so feel free to comment and open up further discussion. The last few points we will go over with the previous plant analogy: think about watering your plant, you could water very sparingly, much like people who keep others at a distance by using a mean or negative façade as a defence, being careless in the care of your plant is the same thing, an action of carelessness (as in you don’t care) in an attempt to stop yourself forming attachments that will hurt, it is an action often rooted in insecurity. Much like my first attempts at being super nice, it was an action rooted also in insecurity, when watering a plant we will feel the need to give t as much as we can, which is a toxic practice, however both have major drawbacks as they will never work having built the foundation for such behaviour on uncertain ground. Ergo and in conclusion, use this new age word called self actualisation (I am not talking about wishing wells that will get the universe to give you a kilo per plant), self actualisation is the positive affirmation of who you are as a person, when you make your mind up as to who you are, you will then start to become it, one step at a time. Much like watering the plant, once you are confident in what you are doing and trust the plant and yourself, then you will get along better, after all, every relationship is about communication, give and take. Especially the relationship you will have with yourself, be kind, but know your boundaries, be secure in yourself that you will take care of yourself. As Rupert Everett once said “To love oneself, is the beginning of a life long relationship”. ============================================================================ Thank you once again for joining us, to the people who made it through and are still awake “congratulations”, you are a stronger person than I, To all of you who claimed to understand what he was saying… we look at you with doubt and the desire to say “Bullshit”. Remember to check out Zamnesia and use code: ZAMMIGD2023, if you don’t then it is your loss for not living life to the full. We hope to see you next week, but completely understand if we don’t. 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