Mars hydro setup. 24k gold & white widow

This week was a tough one, where to begin.. Day 4:, everything looked great the girls were stretching buds starting to form on the 24k golds. Day 5: more of the same gave them a good feed and raised the lights. Lowered the netting and started to scrog out fred, by far being the tallest. Day 6: Let the ladies chill and grow Day 7: minor defoliation, opening up those bud sites. Day 8: Busy at the office and couldn't make it back before lights out... I didn't even get to read them a bedtime story... How will they grow big and strong without their green eggs & ham. Day 9: Lights on couldn't wait to see these girls, unzip the zipper and it slaps me in the face.... not the pleasant aroma, but the sight of dozens of pollen sacks all over Fred. It's like a reallllllly bad friday night out. We wine'd her, we dine'd her and she's a he. I feel dirty all over. Then before I could recover from the first blow the combination punch strikes me harder knocking me to the floor... all the clones.... the second tent... the ones I was about to transplant.... THEYRE ALL FROM FRED!!! I suppose this is what I get for naming my plants after dudes... I tossed the clones in the waste bag, put the females in the other tent carefully removed Fred, leading him to the side of the house where we parted ways not unlike the boy and ol' yeller & into the compost bag with it's children. Bleached and thoroughly cleaned the tent & all the equipment and put them back in praying that in 7 days they're not on MTV's "Day 16 & pregnant" So naturally I contacted crop king seeds and spoke with a nice customer service person named Lisa. She was very understanding to the fact the I was at the moment very upset & disappointed. What's the best way to cheer a person up I ask you? Free stuff! Crop King will be sending me over some Gelato fems and some of their branded seeds "Crown Royale". I'm really excited to try both of them, expect a new journal as soon as I get my hands on them. Thanks Crop King! So onto day 10: I've licked my wounds, enjoyed some smoke and it's back to the garden. Another good feed & minor defoliation. I'm actually kind of enjoying the extra space I have in the tent with fred sitting in a paper bag outside. Good news about this week is, with some help from the good folks over at happy hydroponics I may have found a solution for Dennis' phosphorus issues. They set me up with some "RAW" microbes and beneficial bacterial to help break things down a little better in the medium, in addition to cutting out the cal-mag we'll hopefully start to see some improvements. That's it for me guys, happy growing!