Definitely a male plant. Those little spade looking round things at the stems are pollen sacks and will grow until they explode and shoot pollen over everything else in your grow area. Bag it and burn her at the stake!! Or let her grow and you will have seeds, however, you won't know what is male or female until they go into flower. My advice is to always purchase feminized seeds, that way you will know it's a girl all the way thru to the end.. I'm sorry for your loss tho... (been there done that)