slow dry, don't put them in any container if too wet.
if you can't control the environment, it's simply going to dry at the pace that results and nothing to do about it. If you smoke it fast, it won't matter much. longer term storage would see longer-lasting good weed over time. anything less than a year of storage doesn't require much effort to avoid anything noticeably reduced or lost over time.
60s F / 55-62% RH will result in a slow dry.
2-way humidipaks make curing easy, as long as you don't put the buds in with tem while still too wet.
when they buds first feel dry on outside, thy still need 12-24 hours longer in most cases -- this is tough to guesstimate in a generalized way becuase density and size of buds impact this greatly. you'll learn through experience and trial/error.
when you first jar or place in a box etc with humidipaks or not, check back several hours later. if there was excess moisture inside lagging behind, it'll be extra soft or wet again when you open it. if this is the case, you take it out of the container and let it air dry some more. rinse and repeat until they aren't feeling oddly soft or wet on oustide... how easily it sticks together is also a sign of too much moisture, but good weed does stick to itself under normal conditions too.
moisture makes the plant material more maleable, so it feels soft when 'too wet,' even if not overtly damp to the touch.
moisture in a sealed environment is danagerous. you will grow fungi/anaerobic bacteria in this context. so it is important to pull it back out if you notice they are too moist, still. A 2-way pack does absorb and release moisture, but it has limits. They are perfect for maintaining constant RH once the buds are already properly dry.
supposedly you want the last few % of moisture lost to occur in the jars/container. i don't know if that is true or not, but at home it's virutally impossible to know what % of moisture the buds are at when we don't have expensive lab equipment. we can weight some 'test' buds to guage how much weight they have lost. That lost weight will be similar for all plants - proporitonally speaking. Should lose 75-80% of weight.
this can tell you if it is losing or gaining weight after you jar it up. if it is still losign weight, you have to worry about excess moisture. if it is gaining weight, you probably went a tad too long drying it. you can use this to adjust what you do next time.
if you buy 2-way humidity packs, their gain and loss of weight will indicate same things in that jar. can just weeight the pack.. if it loses weight, the buds are absorbgin moisture. if it gains weight, the buds are still losing moisture relative to Tempr/RH conditions. Once at equilibrium, the 2-way packs will only slowly, very slowly, lose weight.. more so if you open up jar and less humid air enters -- which is going to happen. you want to burp them occasionally even after fully dried.
burp fairly often until they reach an equilibrium weight... then maybe 1/5 days or so? anaerobic bacteria smells funky. you'll know if you waited too long to burp months down the line... it won't happen overnight.
the marijana guru guy, forgeting name, uses cardboard boxes with tops
and holes that help control humiidity.
there are things called Grove bags that seem to work really well for people.
you still can't put overly wet buds into eiher of those options, though.
trial and error.. you'll be more confident about what you do over time.