Thanks guys. I did a test. Waited for when she dropped bad. Watered half feed. Hour later she perked up. Despite my moist soil, I am in an air pot, and the pot is already sunk down compact soil twice it's size. She is under watered. A big big hint for anyone same issue: If under watered, plans branches droop hardcore limp... Like they about to fall off. Add water, they get back up.
Overwater, branches stiff , up, but leaves limp. That's the key.