If I counted after I saw pre-flowering complete, I'd be lying to myself IMO... I'd be NOT counting 2-3 weeks of de facto/categorical flowering the plant is under via hormones. I always count the day the lights flip as day zero, meaning the first morning after a flowering hormone night is day 1.
The counting 2-3 weeks into your grow is why new folks get mad at their seed packs.
If your wife gets pregnant, do you start counting days after you see an ultrasound 3 months into the pregnancy as 'pregnancy day zero'? I guess you can. you can count day 32 of your phd program as day 5 of your undergrad, I guess if you wanted to define things that way, but you're literally just ignoring the plant and doing something to make yourself feel better. If I counted this way, I wouldn't have a single flower period longer than 6 weeks on my profile, and I'm sure that's wrong.